I've been lurking in this community for a while, trying to get some ideas for my wedding on 06-07-08. I'm pagan (rather an eclectic mix of Wiccan & Egyptian beliefs), while my fiance is agnostic. We'd like to incorporate some pagan ideas into the ceremony, without it "taking over" the entire feel (some in-laws wouldn't be pleased, let's just say). We definitely want to do a handfasting...but what else can I write into the ceremony? I'd like to have the elements present and perhaps a reading that is more pagan in nature? Any thoughts? Thanks!